[BUG] Exception during establishing a SSL connection

[taltsafrirpx]

Describe the bug

Hi, we upgraded to latest version and we are getting the following error:
Exception during establishing a SSL connection: java.net.SocketException: Connection reset java.net.SocketException: Connection reset at java.base/sun.nio.ch.SocketChannelImpl.throwConnectionReset(SocketChannelImpl.java:401) ~[?:?] at java.base/sun.nio.ch.SocketChannelImpl.read(SocketChannelImpl.java:434) ~[?:?] at org.opensearch.transport.CopyBytesSocketChannel.readFromSocketChannel(CopyBytesSocketChannel.java:156) ~[transport-netty4-client-2.16.0.jar:2.16.0] at org.opensearch.transport.CopyBytesSocketChannel.doReadBytes(CopyBytesSocketChannel.java:141) ~[transport-netty4-client-2.16.0.jar:2.16.0] at io.netty.channel.nio.AbstractNioByteChannel$NioByteUnsafe.read(AbstractNioByteChannel.java:151) [netty-transport-4.1.111.Final.jar:4.1.111.Final] at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKey(NioEventLoop.java:788) [netty-transport-4.1.111.Final.jar:4.1.111.Final] at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeysPlain(NioEventLoop.java:689) [netty-transport-4.1.111.Final.jar:4.1.111.Final] at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeys(NioEventLoop.java:652) [netty-transport-4.1.111.Final.jar:4.1.111.Final] at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:562) [netty-transport-4.1.111.Final.jar:4.1.111.Final] at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$4.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:994) [netty-common-4.1.111.Final.jar:4.1.111.Final] at io.netty.util.internal.ThreadExecutorMap$2.run(ThreadExecutorMap.java:74) [netty-common-4.1.111.Final.jar:4.1.111.Final] at java.base/java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:1583) [?:?]

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To Reproduce

The error appears on all data nodes

Expected behavior

The error didn't appear in version 2.7

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This is a dup of opensearch-project/security#4718 - @taltsafrirpx it looks like people can't narrow it down so your help would be appreciated.