feat: add dbm for all mysql and postgres integrations

[wconti27]

Adds DBM for all mysql and postgres integrations.

Checklist

• Change(s) are motivated and described in the PR description
• Testing strategy is described if automated tests are not included in the PR
• Risks are described (performance impact, potential for breakage, maintainability)
• Change is maintainable (easy to change, telemetry, documentation)
• Library release note guidelines are followed or label changelog/no-changelog is set
• Documentation is included (in-code, generated user docs, public corp docs)
• Backport labels are set (if applicable)
• If this PR changes the public interface, I've notified @DataDog/apm-tees.

Reviewer Checklist

• Title is accurate
• All changes are related to the pull request's stated goal
• Description motivates each change
• Avoids breaking API changes
• Testing strategy adequately addresses listed risks
• Change is maintainable (easy to change, telemetry, documentation)
• Release note makes sense to a user of the library
• Author has acknowledged and discussed the performance implications of this PR as reported in the benchmarks PR comment
• Backport labels are set in a manner that is consistent with the release branch maintenance policy

[datadog-dd-trace-py-rkomorn]

Datadog Report

Branch report: conti/enable-dbm-for-all-mysql-integrations
Commit report: 64e1abe
Test service: dd-trace-py

✅ 0 Failed, 7022 Passed, 166439 Skipped, 3h 0m 15.6s Total duration (8h 26m 25.99s time saved)

[pr-commenter]

Benchmarks

Benchmark execution time: 2024-04-18 10:05:37

Comparing candidate commit db2bbe7 in PR branch conti/enable-dbm-for-all-mysql-integrations with baseline commit b1dab58 in branch main.

Found 0 performance improvements and 1 performance regressions! Performance is the same for 200 metrics, 9 unstable metrics.

scenario:flasksimple-appsec-get

• 🟥 execution_time [+190.122µs; +252.468µs] or [+3.025%; +4.016%]

[emmettbutler]

There's a failure in the asyncpg test suite that looks like it's probably related to this change. Other than that, looks good!