Reduce integration test matrix

[kou]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.

A challenge.

The current integration test uses the following test matrix:

https://github.com/apache/arrow-rs/actions/runs/10886360255/job/30206176246#step:12:62

Integration: Test: IPC: C++ -> C++
Integration: Test: IPC: C++ -> Java
Integration: Test: IPC: C++ -> JS
Integration: Test: IPC: C++ -> C#
Integration: Test: IPC: C++ -> Go
Integration: Test: IPC: C++ -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: Java -> C++
Integration: Test: IPC: Java -> Java
Integration: Test: IPC: Java -> JS
Integration: Test: IPC: Java -> C#
Integration: Test: IPC: Java -> Go
Integration: Test: IPC: Java -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: JS -> C++
Integration: Test: IPC: JS -> Java
Integration: Test: IPC: JS -> JS
Integration: Test: IPC: JS -> C#
Integration: Test: IPC: JS -> Go
Integration: Test: IPC: JS -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: C# -> C++
Integration: Test: IPC: C# -> Java
Integration: Test: IPC: C# -> JS
Integration: Test: IPC: C# -> C#
Integration: Test: IPC: C# -> Go
Integration: Test: IPC: C# -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: Go -> C++
Integration: Test: IPC: Go -> Java
Integration: Test: IPC: Go -> JS
Integration: Test: IPC: Go -> C#
Integration: Test: IPC: Go -> Go
Integration: Test: IPC: Go -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> C++
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> Java
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> JS
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> C#
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> Go
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> Rust

But ${lang1 in apache/arrow} -> ${lang2 in apache/arrow} such as C++ -> Java are needless in apache/arrow-rs. Because they should be tested in apache/arrow's integration test.

We need only the following patterns:

Integration: Test: IPC: C++ -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: Java -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: JS -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: C# -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: Go -> Rust
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> C++
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> Java
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> JS
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> C#
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> Go
Integration: Test: IPC: Rust -> Rust

This will reduce test time. (The current test time: 10m 50s)

See also: apache/arrow#44062

Describe the solution you'd like

Use apache/arrow#44099 change something like apache/arrow#44062 (comment) .

Describe alternatives you've considered

None.

Additional context

None.