optimize: load spine asm.js module with js.mem && update spine

[PPpro]

Re:
https://github.com/cocos/3d-tasks/issues/16867
https://github.com/cocos/3d-tasks/issues/16865

Dep PR

#15454

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• needs automatic test cases check.

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• does not change any runtime related code or build configuration

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Compatibility Check

This pull request:

• changes public API, and have ensured backward compatibility with deprecated features.
• affects platform compatibility, e.g. system version, browser version, platform sdk version, platform toolchain, language version, hardware compatibility etc.
• affects file structure of the build package or build configuration which requires user project upgrade.
• introduces breaking changes, please list all changes, affected features and the scope of violation.

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Interface Check Report

! WARNING this pull request has changed these public interfaces:

@@ -50449,9 +50449,10 @@
                 setJitterEffect(jitter: spine.VertexEffect);
                 setSwirlEffect(swirl: spine.VertexEffect);
                 updateRenderData();
                 setListener(id: number, type: number);
-                static getCurrentEvent(): Event;
+                setDebugMode(debug: boolean);
+                getDebugShapes();
             }
             export class wasmUtil {
                 static spineWasmInit(): void;
                 static spineWasmDestroy(): void;
@@ -50465,9 +50466,9 @@
                 static getCurrentListenerID(): number;
                 static getCurrentEventType(): EventType;
                 static getCurrentTrackEntry(): TrackEntry;
                 static getCurrentEvent(): Event;
-                static HEAPU8: Uint8Array;
+                static wasm: any;
             }
         }
         /**
          * @internal Since v3.7.2, this is an engine private type.
@@ -50662,12 +50663,8 @@
             protected _accTime: number;
             protected _playCount: number;
             protected _skeletonCache: __private._cocos_spine_skeleton_cache__SkeletonCache | null;
             protected _animCache: __private._cocos_spine_skeleton_cache__AnimationCache | null;
-            /**
-             * @internal
-             */
-            _curFrame: __private._cocos_spine_skeleton_cache__AnimationFrame | null;
             protected _needUpdateSkeltonData: boolean;
             protected _listener: __private._cocos_spine_track_entry_listeners__TrackEntryListeners | null;
             constructor();
             /**
@@ -50837,12 +50834,8 @@
              */
             updateAnimation(dt: number): void;
             protected _flushAssembler(): void;
             protected _render(batcher: UI): void;
-            /**
-             * @internal
-             */
-            requestDrawData(material: Material, indexOffset: number, indexCount: number): __private._cocos_spine_skeleton__SkeletonDrawData;
             protected _updateBuiltinMaterial(): Material;
             protected _updateAnimEnum(): void;
             protected _updateSkinEnum(): void;
             protected _refreshInspector(): void;