[dev] define _POSIX_C_SOURCE for metis build only

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Commit ID: 66a3b57f3e89e6b4cc74d5c55a1d0333b5b544c0

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Commit ID: f82a5006c29b2c324a925fdb15fb07624d949c6f

Build ID: 2

Status: ✅ CI test succeeded.

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