[GraphBolt] Overhaul unique_and_compact CPU.

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Description

Using the new std::atomic_ref for portable compare and swap implementation. See #7614.

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@Rhett-Ying We need C++20 compliant compiler for this PR to go forward. As you can see, Windows supports parallel unique and compact implementation as well instead of the serial code.

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