feat: support dynamic app db backend flag

[yihuang]

Build rocksdb enabled binary:

ENABLE_ROCKSDB=true COSMOS_BUILD_OPTIONS=rocksdb make build

Enable app-db-backend in app.config, or use cli flag:ethermintd start --app-db-backend "rocksdb"

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[fedekunze]

ACK. Minor comments