[Feature]Sync replace

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Motivation

• Link static library by using --whole-archive.
• Update mlu-ops version.
• cherry-pick other commit Pull Request, due to redefinition

Modification

• Modify setup.py
• Modify mmcv/ops/csrc/pytorch/mlu/mlu_common_helper.h
• cherry-pick commits from [WIP] Replace the implementation of roiAlign with mlu-ops #2727
• cherry-pick commits from [WIP] Replace the implementation of nms and iou3d with mlu-ops #2722
• cherry-pick commits from [WIP/Feature] Replace ms_deform_attn source code with mlu-ops interface. #2739
• cherry-pick commits from [WIP] Adapt voxelizaiton ops with mlu-ops interface #2726

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[zhouzaida]

Can we merge mmcv/ops/csrc/pytorch/mlu/ms_deform_attn_backward_mlu.cpp and mmcv/ops/csrc/pytorch/mlu/ms_deform_attn_forward_mlu.cpp to mmcv/ops/csrc/pytorch/mlu/ms_deform_attn_mlu.cpp?