users: use generic destinations for User Notification Rule List component

[ethan-haynes]

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Description:
This PR updates the UserNotificationRuleList component to use generic destinations when the experimental flag is set make start EXPERIMENTAL=dest-types.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:
part of #2639

Out of Scope:
N/A

Screenshots:

Describe any introduced user-facing changes:
Once experimental flag dest-types is no longer required, user contact methods on the profile page will display new label singular values.

Describe any introduced API changes:
N/A

Additional Info:
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